This is one of those issues that needs to be addressed, but no one really thinks about. When I look at guys who don't get laid, or are only sleeping with fat or ugly mature women, they all have one thing in common: they are incredibly negative. Just by talking to these guys, you can tell that they are just negative about everything, and not just mature women.
You discuss anything with them, and they always focus in on the bad aspects, and how things could go horribly wrong. They always have some excuse for not succeeding. If he's not pulling mature women, it's because he's too drunk. And if he isn't too drunk, it's because he's too sober. Anytime you try to engage in a positive endeavor, they try to find a reason why you won't succeed. You make their point moot, and they try to find another reason why you won't succeed.
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They are incredibly negative. They'll tell you that they're "Just being realistic". However, realistic is not just negativity. For every "realistic" negative outcome, there is someone that has overcome that obstacle by staying positive and seeing the best in things. If they focused on the negativity, then they never would have succeeded. And this explains why negative individuals never see the success they want to be seeing with mature women; they are just incredibly negative, therefore, they get negative results.
You will almost NEVER see a hot girl that is negative or likes to be around negative men. Almost all of your negative mature women are either fat or ugly. And likewise, you will never see a man that is negative or "realistic" as some of you negative guys like to mask it as, see any real success with mature women or in life. Just look at the various seduction forums that are full of whiney negative men. You know why these guys are so pissed off? Because they are incredibly negative and never get laid by the hot girls. Negativity and not getting laid/not getting hot mature women go hand in hand.
I know some of you have been to my apartment when I lived on campus, and you also know that I always had an incredible number of mature women always over at my house. Why? Because I stay far away from negativity. When I go out, I go out to have the time of my life, I make everyone laugh, and I never let anything negative permeate into my thinking. If a girl rejects me? Then so what? I bounce right off of that with a smile on my face. There is no time to be moping and making excuses because some girl rejected me.
You guys see this all the time. Whether the guy is a douchebag, asshole, or just a guy that gets a lot of mature women, he always walks around with this huge grin on his face and looks like he is having the time of his life. Mature women want these men because they are incredibly fun and they just have a positive outlook on life.
I know that as long as I have fun, try to make everyone around me have fun, and don't focus on anything negative or let anything get me down when I'm out, I will be incredibly attractive to mature women, specifically the hot ones. And even if I don't sleep with them, they enjoy being around me because I am just a positive fun guy that knows how to have a good time. Ask any girl why she is friends with me, and she'll tell you that it's because I am just fun. These girls are constantly inviting me out and introducing me to their hot friends.
If you are a guy that is not seeing the success you want with mature women, and you feel like you've tried everything, it most likely isn't your technique, and it most likely isn't your confidence, it's more than likely your negativity. NEGATIVE MEN DON'T GET LAID. Here are a few ways you can fix your little attitude problem and become a more attractive man that hot mature women and people in general will want to be around:
1) Immediately turn every negative into a positive.
Anytime you're out and something bad happens, try to see the best in it. Don't focus on anything negative. As soon as you let anything negative get to you, it will show in your face, and it will repel hot mature women away from you.
2) If you can't do anything about it, then don't worry about it.
Are you fat, short, or ugly? Is there anything you can do about it? If the answer is no, then shut the fuck up about it. Whining and complaining isn't going to change anything, so you might as well not do it.
3)Offer solutions instead of problems.
No one, and I mean NO ONE wants to hear or deal with your negativity, especially when they're trying to do something positive. You are only serving to discourage them, and no one wants to deal with someone that is trying to work against what they're trying to accomplish.
4)Get rid of negative people.
This has to do with guys that are trying to do something positive. If you have negative people around you that are always complaining and trying to see the worst in things, GET THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE, ASAP! Sooner or later, their negativity will rub off on you, if it hasn't already.
Birds of a feather tend to flock together. If you're dealing with a complainer that is always whining, bitching, and hating on everyone around him that's trying to do something positive, it's time to find a new friend(s) to hang around. These people are poisonous to your chances of seeing success. If you're on one of those negative seduction forums or in a negative seduction lair? Leave. Those guys don't and never will get laid by hot mature women for as long as they are being negative.
Hot mature women don't want to be around boring, negative, whiney men that always try to see the worst in things. If you are one of those guys not getting laid, or sleeping with fat or ugly mature women, I am 100% sure that it is your negativity about things that is killing your chances of success.